101 Ways
To Show Someone You Love Them
Here is a list of 101 ways to show someone you love them, without anything sexual being involved. The list was created by students in Thurrock and Essex.
1. Show you love them by expressing your feelings in a love poem
2. Write their name with a sparkler
3. Make them a cup of tea
4. Love everything about them even the bits they hate
5. Tell them you love them and that they are special
6. Tell them they’re beautiful
7. Make them their favourite meal
8. Play footsy
9. Send them flowers
10. Surprise them with a gift
11. Text them
12. Visit them often
13. Flirt
14. Remind them that their uniqueness is what shines to you
15. Stick up for them all the time
16. Support them
17. Name a star after them
18. Suck their toes
19. Say to them “you’re the one for me”
20. Take them out
21. Make them smile
22. Go out with them to dinner
23. Be by their side through good and bad times
24. Make them trust you
25. Share secrets
26. Cuddle them
27. Watch their favourite film with them, even if you don’t like it
28. Be strong for them and be there for them
29. Go to the cinema
30. Hold their hand
31. Write them a love letter
32. Look after them when they are ill
33. Make sure they are safe
34. Give them your last rolo
35. Gaze at the stars together
36. Wink at them
37. Massage their feet
38. Make a CD of your favourite songs
39. Sing to them
40. Never judge them
41. Take them for a trip to the zoo or aquarium
42. Buy them chocolate
43. Listen to them
44. Surprise them
45. Smile at them
46. Hug and kiss them
47. Grow old together
48. Blush when they’re around
49. If their having a bad hair day – don’t mention it
50. Make them laugh
51. Gaze into their eyes
52. Chill out together
53. Be open and honest
54. Tell them they’re a great friend
55. Share your favourite thing with them
56. Show that you care
57. Nibble their ear
58. Show you care everyday
59. Let them know you’re always there
60. Tell them that they are the funniest person you know, and that they make you laugh
61. Talk for hours and hours
62. Listen to love songs together
63. Tell them you love them more than shoes
64. Tell them that love is spending time with them
65. Tell them that words can’t describe how you feel about them
66. Share a gingerbread man
67. Tickle them
68. Take them to the fair
69. Take them to the place where you first met
70. Organise an ‘I love you’ message out of the back of a plane
71. Go for a romantic walk on the beach
72. Buy them a piece of the moon
73. Buy them a kinder egg and hide a ring inside
74. Make them a walkway to dinner using candles and roses
75. Go paddling on a summers day together
76. Leave romantic notes on their pillow
77. Write their name in sand
78. Run them a bath
79. Learn to say ‘I love you’ in 10 different languages
80. Parachute together
81. Throw them a surprise party
82. Share strawberries dipped in chocolate
83. Write them a love song
84. Each suck one end of a piece of spaghetti and meet in the middle
85. Make something for them
86. Respect each other
87. Win them a prize (e.g. cuddly toy)
88. Dance with them in a candle lit room
89. Go on a bike ride together
90. Adopt an animal for them
91. Give them a pet name
92. Spend a day pampering each other
93. Find a special hobby to do together
94. Tell them all the little things you love about them
95. Have a moonlight picnic together
96. Cuddle at the cinema
97. Have a locket with their picture in
98. Put a note in their pack lunch saying ‘I love you’
99. Sit under the pier and eat fish and chips together
100. Never cheat on them
101. Read them the 101 ways to show someone that you love them other than having sex and then try some of them!
Your New Suggestions:
Here are some suggestions that other Youth Health users have made:
Submitted: 02/02/2010 14:18 – Stroke their hair
Submitted: 02/02/2010 14:19 - Tell them they have the most beautiful smile
Submitted: 10/02/2010 14:48 - Buy a pair of interlocking necklaces for each of you
Submitted: 22/02/2010 13:40 - Sit with them and not say a word while gazing into their eyes for a whole minute. Then kiss
Submitted: 04/03/2010 11:01 - Draw a picture of them on Microsoft paint.
Submitted: 09/03/2010 08:43 - Tell them your are there for them
Submitted: 23/03/2010 12:19 - Play with their hair
Submitted: 01/04/2010 09:35 - Leave notes in their lunch box
Submitted: 15/04/2010 14:48 - Send them a love letter
Submitted: 20/04/2010 13:41 - Suck your toes is not a way to tell someone that you love them, in fact that is probably the biggest turn off I have ever heard! Instead of that: watch the stars together and tell them you love them at every breaking moment.
Submitted: 20/05/2010 – Show them you love them by giving your heart to them.
Submitted: 20/05/2010 - Show them you are comfortable when they are around.
Submitted: 20/05/2010 - Go out with them.
Submitted: 20/05/2010 - Talk to them as much as you can, but don’t DON’T don’t suck their toes 
Submitted: 25/05/2010 - Just spend time with them
Submitted: 12/06/2010 - Don’t make fun of them, and don’t talk about them behind their back, because they are your best friend! Learn to trust them and do things they want to do, even if u don’t like them, because they will do things you like, that they don’t like.
Submitted: 07/07/2010 – Kiss in the rain
Submitted: 12/07/2010 – Watch a romantic film together
Submitted: 19/07/2010 – Make them a daisy chain
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